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Family Loans

Are you considering helping out a member of your family with a Family Loan?

Read on to find out how to protect that investment.

How do I protect any money I give as a Family Loan?

It is increasingly common for people to receive help from parents or other family members to buy their first homes, or even pay off an existing mortgage. If this is to be done, both parties should consider in advance: is the money a gift or a loan?

Ideally, before entering into any arrangement, you need to set out clear arrangements for repayment.

If it is a loan, you should both consider a formal written agreement with repayment terms, including when the loan should be repaid and the term of the repayment. You might also consider taking a legal charge on the property or becoming a joint owner or shareholder of the property.

If a family member of one half of your couple gifts a lump sum to help buy your property, consideration should also be given to writing up an agreement on how that sum should be accounted for or repaid if you split up in the future, and how the finances or any property equity would be divided.

For advice on how to ensure that such financial contributions are protected when there is an expectation of repayment, or if there is a disagreement between you and your partner about sums one of you has received from a friend or family member, contact our Family Law team for Clear, Precise Advice to avoid any disputes later down the line.

How to Categorise Family Loans

The categorisation of family loans is often disputed during divorce or relationship break-up. Was it a loan expected to be repaid or a gift with no expectation of repayment?

The categorisation matters in ascertaining the financial pot for division. Loans which are often referred to as “hard” or “soft” loans can often perplex clients.

Thankfully, this area of divorce finances has received some clarification in a recent judgement.

A judge must decide if a contractually binding obligation to a third party exists. Once decided, the judge must determine if it is a “hard” or “soft” loan.

Hard loan features:

  • the obligation is to a finance company.
  • the terms resemble a normal commercial arrangement.
  • there is a written agreement.
  • steps have been taken to enforce repayment.
  • there has been no delay in enforcing the obligation; and/or
  • the amount of money involved means the lender is likely to expect repayment.

Soft loan features:

  • the lender is a friend or family member who is on good terms with the borrower and is unlikely to want them to suffer hardship.
  • the obligation arose informally, and the terms do not have the feel of a normal commercial arrangement;
  • no steps have been taken to enforce repayment despite the due date passing.
  • there has been a delay in enforcing the obligation; and/or
  • the amount of money involved means the lender is more likely to waive repayment.

Hard loans are treated as a liability within divorce finances and must be repaid.

A soft loan is treated as a gift and, as such, it will be part of the financial pot for division in a break-up.

For Clear, Precise Advice about giving or receiving a family loan, contact our experienced Family Law team on 01772 555176

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Mark Mosley

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Mark Mosley is Director of Family Law.

Mark has specialised in Family Law for most of his career. He has over 25 years of experience in handling Divorce, Finances and unmarried/cohabitation cases.

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Val Shaw

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Val is a solicitor with over 30 year’s experience in all aspects of Children’s Law.

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Sarah McCarthy

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Sarah is a Senior Solicitor and specialises in Family and Divorce as well as Wills, Trusts and Probate, enabling her to offer comprehensive advice to her clients.

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Fahrat Unnisa

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Fahrat Unissa is a specialist Family Solicitor in our Preston based Family team at Vincents Solicitors. Fahrat has spent most of her 24 year career working with victims of domestic abuse in East Lancashire. She is also a member of the Family Law Advanced Panel for domestic violence and children.

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Martin Stuart

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Martin is a paralegal in the Childcare team within the Family Law department at Vincents.

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Frequently asked questions

If you and your spouse have agreed all of your financial matters by consent then the costs are considerably reduced and once you have exchanged financial information, a draft consent order is prepared and approved and signed by both parties and their solicitors and it is then submitted to the Court for the Judge to approve accompanied by a D81 Form and the court fee.
Emotional Abuse is nonphysical behaviour that is to control, isolate, or frighten you. This includes threats, insults, constant monitoring, excessive jealousy, manipulation, humiliation, and intimidation.
An occupation Order allows the Court to decide who should live, or not live, in the home or any part of it. The Order can also exclude the other person from an area around the home.
A final order is a court order that is issued to legally dissolve your marriage.
What is a Conditional Order? A conditional order is the Court confirmation that there is no reason why you cannot get divorced.
What is TOLATA? The Trusts of Land and Appointment of Trustees Act 1996 (TOLATA) is the statute of law which governs how non married joint owners of property disputes are resolved.  for more information check out our What is TOLATA? page
Common law marriage does not exist in English law. The way in which income, pensions, and capital assets are dealt with on the breakdown of a non-marital relationship is very different from what happens on divorce. There is a perception that couples who are living together will automatically be seen as part of a “common law marriage” and offered many of the benefits and security that married couples enjoy. This is not the case.
This is the form that both parties must fill in and send to the Court if either applies for any financial or property orders. It contains full details of income, savings, investments, debts, and pension funds.
Prenuptial agreements are recognised by the Courts in the UK but crucially they are not binding. 
A “clean break” is where a divorcing couple’s financial claims against one another are dismissed. A clean break can be achieved by the consent of both parties or by an order of the Court.
A pension actuary is a specialist who can prepare a report to consider your options when dividing pensions in terms of pension income and value. Without an actuary, it is unlikely we will be able to provide an accurate report as to how pension provisions should be divided.
A particular issue in financial settlements that often causes concern is what happens to the Pension or Pensions.
You do not have to attend mediation if you have agreed all family and divorce matters. If you wish to apply to the Court relating to children or finances on a divorce matter, you will need to normally have attended a Mediation Information Assessment Meeting (MIAM) before making the application to the Court.
A Lasting Power of Attorney sets out who will manage your affairs if you lose capacity through illness or injury. Consider all the things which will need doing.
You need to speak to a firm who has experts in dealing with whatever particular problem that you have whether that be Divorce, Writing your will, Conveyancing or something more specialist like Medical Negligence Misdiagnosis Claims or Trade Marks and Patents. At Vincents we have specialists across 7 locations who are approachable, knowledgeable and speak in plain english. Try and call us today and find out if we are the right fit for you.
Mediation helps couples going through separation or divorce to work out and agree arrangements for themselves and their children. If these issues can be agreed between you through mediation, it saves the cost of going through a Court to make the decisions for you.
Every case turns on its own facts. A review of your specific facts will allow us to answer this crucial question. What we can advise is that the Court has open to it a number of options.
It will take at least 20 weeks from the date the divorce application is acknowledged by the respondent to the date of the conditional order (the first stage). It will take a minimum of a further 6 weeks before you can apply for the final order ending your marriage or civil partnership. You may be advised to delay the final order until the financial arrangements are resolved.
Coercive Control is isolating you from friends and family, controlling what you eat, what you wear,  what you do, where you go, tracking you and preventing you to obtain support.
A Lasting Power of Attorney sets out who will manage your affairs if you lose capacity through illness or injury. Consider all the things which will need doing.

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